Being cruel to be kind is what 'tough love' means. At first I thought it's just about having a strong love for someone and just perfectly in love. But then I knew it isn't just about that. Tough love is also having the courage to say the harsh/offensive truth to someone for their own good.
Talking about tough love, we mostly get it from someone who's close in our hearts. Most of the time, from our parents. They always give us discussions and advises that we just feel offended and irritated. I've been recently getting some of it these days. But trust me, all you have to do is listen. They always know what's best. :)
For those who are giving, I know it's hard saying those offensive yet true words. Seeing someone offended because of you, who will even be happy about it? Remember, no matter how real the things we're trying to say, we should still be careful with our choice of words.
Changed my hair color just last week. Have you noticed it? :)
When you're receiving a tough love from someone, don't be mad to them. It's pointless. Instead of complaining why they said that or why do they have to be that harsh, just be thankful. Be thankful coz they care about you. ;)
SMILE BIG TODAY! ;) Don't waste your time with sadness! There should be no room for it ;)
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